I tried and trued

I wish my current boyfriend would stop nitpicking at me. Last night I drove all the way to his house (35 minutes away) after work. I take him to dinner ($69) then I take him to the movies ($21) which is all the way back where I live (so another 35 minute drive). Then we go back to his house (another 35 minute drive) and so for some reason he thinks it is ok to get mad at ME for saying that his armpits stink! I had the worse cramps last night and since he was MAD at me for saying that his armpits stink he was not the least bit compassionate. He wouldn't even cuddle with me because he wanted to throw a hissy fit. Last weekend was even worse because he wanted to break up with me because I left a plate, an un-opened beer, and a towel on the floor. Even though I have done his dishes, made his bed, scooped his litter box, cleaned up the crap he leaves in MY car, and once again driven to his house numerous times to see him. He complains that I don't respect his feelings and then has the audacity to accuse me of cheating on him or not finding him attractive anymore. I just wish that he would just tell me what is going on instead of trying to push me away by his seemingly constant criticism. He says that I have been acting distant lately and wonders why.